I think the way conscious will and unconscious feelings interact is more complex than most recognize, and the language we have to talk about it is insufficient.
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I don’t think you can decide in the abstract and I don’t think there is a one-size-fits all answer. Every pet’s (and person’s) decline is different. You may get to a point where you have to make a decision, but the specifics of that point are always different, and being in the situation is not the same as trying to imagine it.
Perhaps you could build some sort of large Fresnel lens to place in front of it that would correct for it.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do you raise siblings in a way that they don't hate each other?
8·12 days agoI think two things that are common causes of sibling bad feelings are differences in treatment, and handling of sibling conflicts, both of which can create feelings of unfairness and resentment.
I don’t have prescriptions for those things. Kids are different and necessarily need to be treated differently. But one should be aware of how this can feel unfair to one sibling. And be aware of how your need to end conflicts and restore order can again wind up being unfair to one sibling.
I think the hardest thing is being able to see things from their points of view.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is a singular ZIP File heavier than separated files?
1·13 days agoIf they were asking 10 zipped individually vs a single zip, I didn’t get that, because that’s not what their phrasing actually said. But you might be right, that would make more sense to ask.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is a singular ZIP File heavier than separated files?
313·15 days agoWouldn’t trying it out and seeing how much it saved be about the same amount of work as typing in this question?
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's the psychology of people who slam their front doors in apartments everytime they go in or out?
3·16 days agoI’ll just offer one particular situation. I have a door to my kitchen that is metal and glass like a sliding door but swings on a hinge. More mass than a typical wooden door and it swings on the hinge very freely, no resistance to slow it down. So it swings with pretty much the velocity you give it, and it requires a decent amount to make it latch.
Commonly I go in or out with stuff in my hands so I can rarely close it slowly and carefully. I end up giving it a little shove, often with my foot. If you get the force just right, it will latch with out being loud, but it has to be just right. Any less and it doesn’t latch. Any more and it slams pretty loudly. It’s really hard to get right, an not slam it more loudly than you intend. And I’m sensitive to noise so it’s not like I don’t care. But with this particular door it’s hard to avoid.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Older people (30+) online, what would you advise younger generations in regards to life?
2·16 days agoA lot of advice is like medicine. Whether it is good or bad for you depends on what you are or aren’t suffering from
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why do some people try to humanize the wealthy and people in positions of power?
3·20 days agoTolerance and humanization are not the same thing. Understanding that terrible behaviors are human does not mean we must tolerate them.
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Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Am I nuts to crack Capture One?English
4·22 days agoI am totally ignorant about this kind of software, but it seems like the ultimate solution is to extract your data from it. Has anybody done any work around cracking their data format? Or what about Adobe’s? Could their be a path like having Abode import your data from Capture and then use some Abode export crack to get it into some more open format?
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•You have the option to absolve all of Chair or all of Table for the rest of eternity from the fabric of reality. Which would be easier to live without?
1·26 days agoNo that’s what comes out of the butt.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most nonsense thing someone has ever told you?
2·27 days agoOK, sorry, I misread “I couldn’t resist, and they couldn’t watch me all the time” as meaning you were tickling their feet in front of them and they couldn’t bear to watch.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most nonsense thing someone has ever told you?
5·27 days agoThat’s why the military had never allowed long hair or beards.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's a better way to say "possibly possible" or "necessarily necessary"?
1·27 days agoIf you’re talking about what a person would likely understand from those words, then sure, “It’s possible for me to lift 400 pounds if I became a bodybuilder” would probably not confuse anyone. The grammar isn’t quite right, though, because of the way tense /mood is used, and it sounds wrong. I think OP wanted to add the “possibly” because it sounded wrong even if they didn’t know why wrt grammar. If that’s splitting hairs so be it.
Even saying “I could lift 400 pounds if I became a bodybuilder” would be better.
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Linux@lemmy.ml•What are the silliest reasons people have given you for not wanting to try Linux?
24·28 days agoThis was quite a few years ago, but a friend of mine said he’d tried Linux but had switched back because some clipboard feature he was used to using didn’t work (sorry, I forget the details). He was a programmer to, so perfectly capable of troubleshooting or finding some alternative tool. I just stared at him dumbfounded.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most nonsense thing someone has ever told you?
4·28 days agoI’m pretty sure you didn’t mean it this way, but was he sitting in a tank that was itself flying in the jet? Because that would be even more awesome.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most nonsense thing someone has ever told you?
5·28 days agoAlso a good evolutionary tool for helping you avoid food poisoning!
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the most nonsense thing someone has ever told you?
7·28 days agoTheir baldness makes them extra aerodynamic.
When? I think you mean “if”.