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  • dohpaz42@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlHow to deal with exhaustion?
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    10 days ago

    Obligatory: this is not medical advice. This is merely my personal experiences. In fact, the only thing I will advise anyone on is that if they feel overwhelmed, they seek advice from a licensed therapist.

    So I’ve had a similar problem for the past 9 years. For me, I have to come to the conclusion that I’m in a freeze-state of my dysregulated nervous system.

    I’m in weekly talk therapy, and have been working on recognizing the things that have been causing me the most stress, and ways I can deal with or mitigate those things.

    And that’s been all fine and good, but I still struggle with getting started on actual activity to help deal with my compounding responsibilities. It’s hard, and some days are better than others.

    I used a combination of calendars and reminders to help break down and organize my tasks. I give myself grace if I can’t get them all comply when I initially wanted to finish them, and I try to do at least 2 or 3 things a day ( o matter how small).


  • dohpaz42@lemmy.worldtoLinux@lemmy.mlThis $149 RISC-V Tablet Runs Ubuntu 24.04
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    24 days ago

    The ram options available for this tablet are better than what the iPad had when it first came out, and are pretty on par with more modern versions. Source

    The idea of using a tablet as a computer is not exactly a selling point for me. What id love to see is an app market space for tablets like this. Something that competes with Apple and Google; especially if it had a focus on home automation and security. Gaming would be a close second.


  • Hm. Honestly, if you’re not willing to get police involved, the only real option you might have would be to confront the person you suspect. Obviously they may be a danger to others, so you may wish to do it in a very public space where you can put something physical between the two of you (eg a restaurant table).

    If it were me, I would maybe take one person (at post) with me if I really felt threatened by this person. But by all means, don’t make it a huge deal or you will spook or freak out this person. Best case scenario is they flee and stop posting and then you won’t know what they’re up to. Worst case is that they flip out and decide to go in their dream rampage.

    Short of that, I would also strongly recommend that you and your friends always stay in groups of at least two (maybe three if possible). Maybe pair a friendly guy with a girl (if they are comfortable with that). I suggest that because the stalker probably would be intimidated by the male presence.

    All of that aside, go to the police. Even if they are incompetent, you must get this documented as soon as possible.









  • Get a glass. Fill it with crushed ice. Pour about an inch worth of vodka in, then about a quarter inch of lemon juice. Fill the remainder of the glass with tonic water. Repeat about 7-8 times over the course of a couple of hours.

    As a bonus, Beverly Hills Cop: Axel F is on Netflix. Great movie. Kind of reminds me of Lethal Weapon back in the day, but still a seriously great and funny movie. Well worth a watch. Judge Reinhold is seriously underrated.



  • Up until recently, I hadn’t gone out dating in over 15 years. I feel like the thing I struggle with the most is finding people who would be interested in me in a romantic/sexual way. I’m not a social butterfly by any measure, but I am able to put myself out there. I’m also not the type of guy that exudes charisma. I also have a semi-permanent resting bitch face/scowl. And at 6’3” and 260lbs, I feel that intimidate people. If I were with a group of people that I felt comfortable with, I know things would be a lot different. I also tend to overshare. 😉






  • My two cents:

    Outside of licensing and whatnot, which you should definitely look into, one idea to build experience is to approach friends, family, and your neighbors. Do work for them, and ask for them to review your work. You can also go on Facebook and NextDoor and appeal to folks there for small jobs, and work your way up. You might even consider getting a job with an existing company and working your way up that way.