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snek_boi@lemmy.mlOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•In Lemmy, some images display nicely and others don't and instead require me to click on them only to be sent to a new page that displays the image. Why?English
1·5 days agoFor those who have asked, I’m using my browser, and I’m using normal vanilla Lemmy.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Have you felt that a tooth is crooked but really it's not?English
3·1 month agoI always thought I had a crooked tooth. It felt that way whenever I touched it with my tongue. It has bothered me every day for years.
However, it was only yesterday that I asked my dentist about it. She looked at my tooth and said it was perfect. At first, I couldn’t believe it.
Apparently, teeth are usually not symmetrical; usually the side facing the center of your mouth is more square-y. The side facing away is usually more bulbous.
I’m shocked. And a bit frustrated, because it seems as if the way forward is accepting that I’ve got a tooth with a protruding corner that my tongue will forever feel.
That or I can pay a bazillion dollars for a completely unnecessary dental procedure.
I think I prefer accepting my corner.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Oddly specific question, but has anyone here had or known of someone who had an epileptic pet? If so, could you help me understand some stuff?
1·2 months agoThanks for your response. I’m glad your dog was in your hands.
And yes, your answers help me have a clearer idea of what the experience can be like and what can be done. Thanks.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Oddly specific question, but has anyone here had or known of someone who had an epileptic pet? If so, could you help me understand some stuff?English
1·2 months agoThanks for your response. I’m glad the dog lived a life with you, someone who cared about them. I’m sorry the seizures got to her.
Just to clarify, my questions weren’t for a dog of mine. They are for a neighbor that seems to not care well for their dog, and their dog has seizures. A group of neighbors filed complaints already, and we’re waiting on the resolution. In the meantime, I wanted to understand what the dog could’ve been experiencing and what could be done while a dog is having a seizure. If the dog is in pain, the type of complaint is more serious than if not, so if the current complaints don’t change anything, maybe something can be done in the future to change the complaint.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Oddly specific question, but has anyone here had or known of someone who had an epileptic pet? If so, could you help me understand some stuff?English
2·2 months agoThanks for reaching out. Sorry for taking so long. Here are my questions regarding dogs with seizures: what do you do while a dog is having a seizure? Do you know what they may be experiencing?
I ask because I have a neighbor with a dog that is practically left alone most of the day and most of the night and sometimes has seizures that we can hear and that my neighbor confirmed via text messages. A long time ago we reported my neighbor to the local animal control body, but they claimed that they couldn’t do anything unless we could prove the animal was suffering. After collecting neighbor testimonies and recording ourselves in our homes listening to the dog (we had to prove that we were recording ourselves and not the neighbor), we filed a formal complaint. Now we’re waiting for animal control to take action
I guess my questions at this point are out of curiosity and compassion for the dog. In case the complaint doesn’t come to anything, maybe my questions can also be fodder for future, more effective complaints.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•[SERIOUS] what conspiracy theory do you believe is 100% true?
42·4 months agoThe one that says that conspiracy theories are used by elites to distract us from the real injustices and problems in this world.
Hey I like Gnome :((((((((((((
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do left-leaning—or not even left-leaning, but pro-choice, pro-life people who don’t care about fornication—who are also Catholics and Christians justify their religion?
2·7 months agoI’ve met Christians who have explained their train of thought.
Their strongest argument, in my mind, is that the Christian god created the universe for humans to choose to live well. This god is not intervening and simply created the universe’s initial conditions, much like a clock-maker. In this view, Christians simply choose what kind of life they want and they hope it will get them closer to their god.
It would seem that the choice of being progressive does not stop many Christians from meeting their god. In fact, I’ve met people who say that progressive causes are the way we build heaven on Earth.
Another argument I’ve heard is that the Christian god has said lots of things to lots of people over long spans of time. These utterings have not always been exactly the same. Sometimes the Christian god says some things to some people and some other things to other people. Therefore it is a good Christian’s duty to dutifully reinterpret the Christian god’s words.
I don’t particularly like this second argument because it seems unnecessarily complicated.
But the first one seems more coherent and with less moving pieces.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How did you lose feelings for the more "important"/"worse" ex-crushes of your life?
6·7 months agoNot ruminating about it + time + having stuff to look forward to in life + paying attention to my present
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•To what extent is the standard structural definition of racism structurally racist?
4·7 months agoThis is a matter of defining words. It’s fine to play the game of “which word best corresponds to the phenomena”, but I prefer playing another game: what function or what purpose is this word or this definition serving in context?
It would be sad to see “racism is structural” as an excuse for people to be cynical assholes (as opposed to tactical protesters). It’s much better when it’s used to achieve an equitable and fair world.
Beyond function, there’s also another framework that could help you: complexity dynamics. Racism happens within a complex system. Within that system, there are powerful actors, constraints, and constructors. Understanding this makes it clearer why, even if polite society is polite to marginal groups, systematic discrimination in schooling, credit, and incarceration are still structural racism.
If this clicks with you and you wanna learn more, let me know and I can recommend some stuff :)
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Have you ever converted another “normie” to use a federated social media platform ?
71·7 months agoI was working temporarily at a place with a cafeteria. I was having lunch and a guy sat with me and we talked for a while. It was obvious he wasn’t brainwashed by neoliberalism or neoconservatism. I mentioned it and he said “I’m an anarchist”.
“Check out Lemmy.” He loved how it sounded. Idk. Maybe he’s here.
Also, I get that, arguably, anarchists aren’t normies, but you defined normies in a computer-literacy way and he wasn’t a techie.
Shoutout to the developers who work on making Linux safer. Adding memory-safe languages to Linux seems like an uphill battle.
It’s such an uphill battle that some people have altogether stopped contributing to Linux. An example is the former Asahi Linux lead developer.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Technology@beehaw.org•Vimeo Lays Off 'Most' of Its Staff, Allegedly Includes 'the Entire Video Team'
4·9 months agoDropout uses Vimeo?
A cute squirrel that seems all innocent but actually is also a bottle opener
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is it a red flag that your boss asks you to explain yourself in front of other coworkers?
51·9 months agoThe goal is to have a good working environment to live good lives and do good work.
The fact that your boss pulled in other coworkers could be interpreted as a red flag, as something fundamentally wrong with your boss. However, without more information, I think this situation could be workable. In other words, there are things you can do.
Again, the goal is to have a good working environment to live good lives and do good work.
I think a good working environment is one where errors can be talked about openly and without fear. I do not think the solution is “praise publicly criticize privately”. I think the solution is for your team (including your boss) to create psychologically safe environment. How? By emphasizing the goal, the purpose of your work. By admitting to mistakes or lack of knowledge to accept fallibility. This is especially helpful if your boss does it. By appreciating when someone openly shares concerns or mistakes. By creating rituals or habits of inclusion, such as well run meetings or effective information-gathering methods.
Do all of those recommendations sound hard to implement and naive? I think for many teams they are. But the reality is that psychologically safe teams exist, and they perform better than teams that don’t have it.
If it’s hard to implement it, why am I bringing it up? Because I think it’s important know exactly what went wrong with your meeting with your boss. It’s better to have an accurate map that shows a steep canyon than a fake map that shows a nonexistent bridge.
So what do you do?
Here are a couple of suggestions:
- learn about psychological safety. Amy Edmonson is the authority on the subject.
- learn to have Crucial Conversations. It’ll help you now and it’ll help you forever.
If you vibe with what I’m saying, let me know and I can give you more suggestions. At the same time, it’s totally understandable if you don’t think my path is viable.
To evaluate “clanker” as a word, I think it’s worthwhile to evaluate its function in context.
So, what function is saying “clanker” serving? When someone uses it, what stories does it make more or less likely? Does it bring more stories of kindness, playfulness, and empathy? Or does it bring more stories of cruelty, aggression, and callousness?
I will not answer those questions in this post, but I think those are a good starter point to evaluate “clanker” as a word.
snek_boi@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What are some habits or skills that you've recently(or not so recently) learnt that improved the quality of your life or made things more fun?English
1·11 months agoTo understand your question, do you mean in general? Or to go into the details of how it looks to apply the ideas? In general, I’d say my advice is to read the book Crucial Conversations and the book The Fearless Organization and learn the ideas in there. How does it look? From afar, Crucial Conversations and psychological safety look like better conversations. I can’t say they’re perfect, but at least I avoid some pits I fell into before.

Switched to Typst and love it. I’d say I use LibreOffice much less because of Typst.