It’s certainly not “disrespectful” to have sexual fantasies, stop gatekeeping desire you weirdo. It’s not even a fetishization, I find that to be an over complication of what’s really going on when straight men consider lesbian sex to be hot.

The formula is quite simple (from the perspective of a man):

1. The least sexy thing about sex is my participation in it as the man
2. The most sexy thing about sex is the woman, regardless of what she’s doing

Therefore when we crunch the numbers and Cary the zero, it becomes clear that there is no upper bound to the amount of women participants in sex but male participants should be capped.

TLDR we like women

Women would certainly consider it to be, but the gay community gets to decide their own norms (not laws) and if that behavior is considered acceptable then it flies, otherwise gays can have their own #metoo and fix it.

Onions taste gross and have no tangible benefit to cooking. Fight me.