The former

Absolutely not. He is entirely in the wrong here. You were just a child and he was much older, an adult. It could’ve been worse, sure, but it IS weird and fucked up that he knew you were 13.

My bad, it’s a reference to my profile picture character who has 38 jobs.

Nothing changes, like others have been saying, except for legal stuff and independence. If you go to college, you can get a well-paying job and not end up like me.