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    Sex

    Turns out I’m asexual.

    The spicy part is try being asexual yet HOPELESSLY romantic

    But aside from THAT – Brand name clothing.

    Most of it doesn’t even look good

    There was a time the rich dressed decadently, that was conspicuous consumption, but at least it looked pretty and shiny in pictures. Nowadays rich people be buying clothes that look exactly, completely indistinguishable from the discount shop made-in-china artificial-fabric rags everyone else is wearing, but which have a logo printed on them. And that logo is what makes it expensive.

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      When you say “asexual”, do you mean you hate it, or you don’t hate it and don’t mind your romantic partner doing it with you?

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        This varies from ace to ace. With me?

        I am not repulsed but I am violently disinterested

        A partner wants to fuck? Sure, I guess? If it makes them happy and I like them. But like. I’ll never go out of my way to try and get sex.

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    podcasts, owning an automobile, twitter, following celebrities, being competitive, land ownership, having a degree versus having the knowledge the degree entails, marriage, religion, recycling (beyond that of reducing and reusing), collecting things, fashion, owning the newest of anything once it is released especially for phones and i could come up with more probably but this likely covers at least one thing people who read this are into in one way or another.

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    MrBeast videos, like i know his main audience are kids but like why? Compared to other youtubers like Niko, MrBeast is terrible.

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      Mr Beast has an autistic level obessesion with gaming the YouTube algorithm. Calibrating exactly how much to airbrush his grimace in the thumbnail truely brings him joy.

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    Looking through these comments I don’t know what half of this stuff is and I don’t think I want to.

    My wife’s freind came over the other day and asked me if I could fix her new glasses because they were crooked, being polite I said I liked them (they’re hideous but to each their own), and she responded “thanks they’re D and G, they only cost me $700”. These were $700 glasses with no additions. No blue light thing, no scratch resistant stuff.

    I don’t care for that.

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      There are fools out there who are willing to invest in this hype train. Is it enough for you to understand the hype?

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        I do understand their wishful thinking. What I don’t understand is their disconnect from reality.

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    Big butts. I mean the ones featured in “Baby Got Back” were ok. But, today, some people are going crazy with it.

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      I’ve had people outright claim caffeine and coffee aren’t addicting. It basically ticks all the boxes, from habit-forming chemical dependency to social reinforcement. Out of addictions to have, it’s one of the less harmful ones, but it absolutely can form addiction and people who can’t function without it are dependent, even if they can overcome it easily.

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    Most things that people seem to get hyped over really. Not big on buying things. Books are an exception but most people aren’t hyped about those

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      It’s been really bewildering and concerning seeing all the crazy consumer crazes online. Maybe this was unfounded, but there was a while where I thought we were starting to wane on consumerism but I guess I was just wrong about that. The internet has just supercharged it. We now have turbo consumerism. Forget about keeping up with the Joneses, you now scroll past 100 of them in your feed and half of them are human billboards influencers.

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      Oh ho ho I am quite hyped for books ! Silly when you can basically get them free to read on a computer ot e reader and then they weigh nothing but…still prefer realism.

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    Driving a pickup truck as your commute vehicle. The mileage is terrible, and you have reduced visibility in front of the hood. Get a safer and more efficient vehicle. It’ll be cheaper!

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      I rented a Hybrid Toyota Camry over the weekend, that thing was awesome. 18 dollars to refuel for the return.

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      I agree, 90%. That being said, some people can’t afford a car that isn’t provided by their construction employer. Some people have hobbies that involve moving things (motorcycles, mountain bikes, wood, etc) and can only afford one car. And I’m sure there are reasons I’m not thinking of.

      Most people with pickups around me do not need them, but having owned a small S10 years ago for a similar to above reason, I try to see why they exist, and try not to judge if it’s not obvious.

      All that being said, Why oh why are they so big now?

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        You can usually tell the difference, because the tradesperson’s truck is full of crap all the time and probably worn out, while the parking lot princess in empty and pristine.

        Lifting is also a strong hint, since it makes the bed very hard to reach. I have seen a lifted pickup with a full bed exactly once since I started paying attention.

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          Also, the people actually using their trucks don’t get the ones with 5 “genuine leather” seats, extra legroom, top of the line speakers which they’ll definitely blast with the windows down for the whole street to hear, and a bed barely bigger than the compartment on a hatchback.

          I see mostly two door trucks at construction sites. Never seen one of those luxury ones with the huge cabin.

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        Mountain bikes can easily be carried with a car, motorcycles are normally self propelled and don’t need to a pick up truck to move them and they make trailers for moving them that can be towed by a normal sedan, wood is another thing that’s not normally transported unless you are using the truck for work and can be easily transported by a trailer or a rental truck for infrequent use

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          A family of mountain bikes is not great on the back/top of a car. Not all motorcycles are for the road. And wood is very normally transported if that is your hobby.

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      The way to restrict them to industrial purposes is to require a CDL or at least a higher level license to drive them. It would make sense too, they’re objectively more dangerous so why shouldn’t the licensing for them be more strict?

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        I think this might be a potential disconnected between rural and urban folks. A lot of trucks are big and stupid; and unsafe. But an old style reasonable pick up doesn’t need a CDL. It’s very useful for moving things that you don’t want to mess up your interior. During the summer my family takes one with a small motorcycle and inflatable kayaks to raft rivers in Colorado; quite useful. But I get it in the cities; even our reasonable sized sedan felt big having the parallel park when I’ve visited them.

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        I wouldn’t want one myself, but I don’t understand trying to ban something just because I don’t like it.

        But apparently, that’s a popular sentiment

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          Not ban, but make the licensing process more rigorous for a vehicle that takes more skill to operate safely compared to a standard car. Anyone can get a higher class drivers license if they pass the test, but the majority of people won’t bother so you end up with less trucks driven by people who just want to look cool.

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            If people want to look cool, why not let them enjoy life? Should we perhaps ban hairdressers, in favour of a mandatory buzz cut?

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              Because the rest of us have a right to life, too. Ever heard the saying, “Your right to swing your fist ends where my nose begins”? That’s colorful, but it’s not even true; people have an expectation of a certain reasonable amount of space around their bodies, and even entering it with your fist might be considered assault. The concept that one’s actions and choices affect other people is what’s important here.

              That’s the problem with giant pickup trucks: They affect other people on the road, and the problem with giant pickup truck drivers is that they either refuse to recognize this fact, or they enjoy infringing on the rights of other people to enjoy life. Either way, it’s bad for society, where we all have to live together somehow. Mullets and man-buns, by contrast, don’t materially affect anybody else in the slightest.

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              Because trucks have been proven to be more dangerous and make any accident more likely to be fatal? They also present unique safety challenges not present in smaller cars, namely they have a huge blind spot in front of them like any other tall commercial vehicle. If you’re going to drive a more dangerous vehicle, you’d better actually know how to drive it safely.

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                There’s indeed many people that claim it’s very dangerous, and women should cover their hair in public!

                In both cases I’d rather see people happy and just enjoy their lives

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                  Hard to enjoy life spread across the pavement like a crayon by a truck.

                  Believe it or not, some lifestyle choices have consequences external to the person making the decision

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                  There’s indeed many people that claim it’s very dangerous, and women should cover their hair in public!

                  that is barely even tangentially related to the question

                  2/10, must try harder

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    Labubus.

    Kids wanting them I get, but the craze among adults for them is baffling to me. And the blind bag mechanic is just a bullshit way to get people to buy more than they actually want in an attempt to collect a full set. It’s honestly kind of sad to see so many adults fall for something meant to manipulate children into begging their parents to buy over and over again.

    You know something is worth your money when they deliberately obfuscate what you’re actually buying.

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    Most celebrities. I know its usually manufactured hype, but I still don’t understand people falling for it.

    Collectible toys. On top of not getting it, I hate it from an environmental perspective and a wasted resources (incl labor) perspective.

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    The Chance-Vought F4U Corsair. People fangirl over the reverse gull-wings but I just don’t get it. Bending the goddamn wings to fit the the prop on the plan is just a bizarre bandaid for an odd design.

    Gimme that P-47 chunky monkey any day

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    Most things. Hype is usually just marketing, at least nowadays. I’ve seen a lot of hypes come and go, and it’s always the same playbook.

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      Products don’t blow up unless they’re profitable to sell in the first place. So when I hear everyone going crazy over a new product or concept, I try to analyze what’s in it for the businesses.

      If it’s a general concept that a bunch of different vendors suddenly all start selling online, usually they can be found on alibaba for a fraction of the price by a bunch of niche Chinese companies who’s been making them in relatively small volumes for years and only recently did a bunch of “entrepreneurs” discover them and set up their dropshipping operations with associated viral marketing tactics. Fidget spinners were a good example of this.

      Or if the product is a food, it usually has a ton of sugar which has been shown to be extremely addictive and subconsciously gets your brain to want not just sugar in general, but the other flavours associated with it so you’ll keep wanting more of the same product. Crumble cookies and “Dubai” chocolate come to mind.

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      I agree, they all appear rather insincere now. But maybe that’s just because we’ve grown older?

      I bet parents knew the pokemon card thing was selling cardboard for an insane price based on mostly marketing.

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      Agree. Made a real effort in recent years to question the crap what I really need, and what’s a want vrs a need.

      I feel a lot happier not buy stuff upon stuff. I’m trying to buy as much used/second hand as possible.

      I don’t understand many of the product hypes. Why would you pay more to endorse someone’s brand. The cups. Like $50 for a cup. That’s crazy, you still drink the same water out of it.